There is still an argument over whether the g-spot really exists. A gynaecologist Dr. Jones Stewart on concluding his study wrote in an article for Times Magazine in 1983 that women that had the area supposedly contained the g-spot, surgically removed reported no loss of sensation.
The belief of the general public though is that the g-spot is a reality with one study concluding that 84% of women believing that there is a "highly sensitive area" in the vagina. Modern day publishing discuss the g-spot as if it a medical truth.
The g-spot or Grafenberg Spot (named after its discoverer, a German gynaecologist called Ernst Grafenberg) is a small highly sensitive area located 5-8cm (2-5 inches) inside the vagina on the front upper wall. The g-spot is said to be the female equivalent of the male prostate gland. Women have even found they ejaculate a fluid if they have an orgasm by stimulation of the g-spot, researchers in North America claim the fluids composition is similar to the secretion of the prostate gland.
The g-spot is located beneath the urethral sponge. This explains why many women feel they have to pee when their g-spot is stimulated with every woman having a urethral sponge then every woman must have a g-spot.
The mystery around the g-spot can be partly explained by the common misconception surrounding it. It modern parlance many women believe the g-spot to be a "sex button" that can be pressed like a starter button, at anytime to cause an erotic explosion. Then as a result during love-making when this is the case and an erotic explosion does not appear leads many women to believe that the g-spot doesn't exist. The g-spot mystery continues I believe because of a lack of understanding of the g-spot. The g-spot should be considered more as an "erotic zone" as Grafenberg himself described it.
I think many women who claim not to enjoy or notice g-spot stimulation are more then likely not using the correct technique or using sufficiently firm pressure on it so that the g-spot is being stimulated. First though us girls have to locate the g-spot and don't worry many women find it difficult to locate the g-spot. Here is a basic guide.
The g-spot is a bean shaped group of nerves tissues located halfway between the back of the pubic bone and the top of the cervix. The size and position of the g-spot differs from women to women, but it is usually about the size of a quarter, and lies 2-3 inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone.
If you learn to understand you g spot then there is a whole world of pleasure open to you.